Dating advice for men

Use a business card to pick up women

business cardsA business card is a very important tool to give your contact details when there is no time or when you don’t know the person enough to give your contact details.

For instance, you meet a woman at a shop, and she does not have time. In this situation, you would give her your business card. Some so-called pickup artists say that men should get a phone number. I disagree with this point of view. If you get a phone number, it does not mean a woman is willing to do anything with you. I know it because this issue happened to me. I obtained the mobile phone number of a woman and I called up her. I had a hard time on the phone. She was very unfriendly on the phone. It was just not working. It was a total waste of time. Picking up a woman on the phone is like picking up a woman online. It is a myth.

If a woman has your phone number or your email address and if she contacts you, it means she is interested.

The business card is also efficient when a chaperone or other people surround a woman. Just give your business card and leave. Today, business cards are so cheap so that you can order arty ones and distribute it.

The business card is important. You should always be ready to have several business cards in your pocket. Be ready to give it to an interlocutor at any time. Be also ready not to succeed every time.

There is always a percentage of feedback that is low as compared to the number of distributed business cards. Thus, Distribute as many business cards as you can. Don’t force women to call you. Add your skype,

Put alternative contact details on the business card. Mention you have a facebook account and add a disposable email account. Many women are very shy today and prefer to analyze your Facebook account before contacting you. So, it may be useful to put some public information on your Facebook profile. You can get more information about it in my Kindle Ebook called “Generic guide to dating women” where I describe a step called identity protection and the business card technique.

A business card is so useful. I remember once in Israel, I was with one friend in a bar, and a woman came to speak to us and wanted to speak with French people. Suddenly, her brother showed up, and he was angry saying something like “she is an easy woman and she goes out with any men.” He was upset for no reasons and very cynical. He left, and she followed him. It was an awkward situation. This woman was around 25 years old, and there was no problem with her. She was nice and attractive. The chaperone left first, and she followed him outside. At that moment, I could have given a business card if I had one. The brother would not have been a problem afterward. In fact, he was playing the role of the chaperone. You see in this situation that the woman mindset is not the problem. From my observations, most the time, That’s the fences surrounding women who prevent us to be successful with women.

Bottom line, the neo-machos and the pickup-artists are wrong. They make you believe that the problem is all about your confidence. They don’t take the life of the woman, her sexuality, the people surrounding her, the environment, the context. On top of that, a woman is very rarely available for you.

This business card technique is part of my “generic guide to dating women”

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