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How to seduce women in Latin America?

I received requests about this question, and I am happy to answer because I wondered myself how to pick-up South American women since a long time. First of all, I must say I have never been able to know before visiting Latin American countries for several reasons. Many western men who traveled to South-America never really explain how things are working there.


It is important to understand and speak Spanish just enough to interact with South American women. Few people speak and understand English well in South America except in Argentina.

Where to seduce a Latin American woman?

I don’t advise you to go nightclubs and lounge bars first because those places aren’t good pick-up places. I have seen the same phenomenon all over the world those last ten years. Beautiful women don’t go out anymore as much as before in nightclubs. I wrote an article explaining that nightclubs are not good pick-up places. It is all the case in South-America. Nevertheless, lounge bars are slightly better than nightclubs. Today, you can meet the most beautiful South American women in the day. Nevertheless, lounge bars can be used afterward for a date.

Consequently, you would ask me: “where should I go to pick up South-American girls?”. Go to shopping malls, beauty centers, coffee shops & fitness clubs. That’s why I wrote an Ebook listing all the shops, job positions, sports and hobbies that attract women (see below). Women are crazy about shopping malls in South-America. So, wake up early and go to the shopping malls.

I think that shopping malls are a very good place to approach the cutest South-American women wherever you go in South America. I advise you to use my “business card” technique.

How to get dressed?

South-American women trust men who get dressed in classy clothes.  See our article about clothing. Don’t get dressed like a beach tourist. I know it is difficult when the weather is hot. But you should look classy with at least a polo shirt.

The family issue

South-American women are very family oriented. It implies advantages and downsides. If you go to a coffee shop in a mall and if you see a South-American woman with her mother, don’t be scared to talk to them. In some cases, the mother could answer you on behalf of her daughter in front of her. Her presence will be accepted by her daughter. Some South-American mothers are possessive. They may also try to discourage you saying their daughter is committed.

You may also have a similar issue if this particular woman hangs out with her brother or her male cousin. In this case, there is not so much to do because their brothers and cousins over protect the girls of the family.

For god sake, don’t fall into the “family invitation” trap. In Latin America, people are welcoming, but there are also too welcoming. You may be invited and be forced to eat too much food. Your hosts may consider a dishonor if you don’t finish the meal. Each member of the family may want a piece of you, and you may become their toy answering endless questions. Sometimes you understand that the family is evaluating for a future marriage with the daughter. When you marry a South American woman, you may also marry the whole Latin American family. Always stay away from an early family invitation.

I hate this aspect of the Latin culture. I advise staying away from families. Follow my “isolation” rule. You should get rid of any middleman between yourself and your date. Don’t try to sympathize with one of her family members. You don’t want to date her mother or her brother. Otherwise, you are going to be entangled in the middle of a family business.

How to address a Latin American woman?

It will not hurt to learn some Spanish. Don’t forget that compliments in her native language are much more power than compliments in English. Then, for basic stuff like agreeing to move to a restaurant, to go back to the hotel, English can be used. Then, you can use techniques I described at step 2.3 action seduction in my generic guide to dating women.