Just like in London, there is an issue with the size of the city. Paris is so big so that if you live in the suburb, you cannot bring a woman back to your place because it is just too far. In general, there is always long distance trips between her place, your place, and the lounge bar or nightclub. A hotel solution is a good option. It is a neutral place. If the woman is hooked up with you and if you want to terminate the relationship, it is easy because she doesn’t know your address.
Before a date in Paris, never book a hotel room beforehand because it is too expensive. In France, there is a big issue with hotels, especially in Paris. Independent hotel staffs love to know everything about customers and that is not okay. Unfortunately, all anonymous motels are located outside of city centers. You need a car to go there. However, this is the best option, if you cannot go to her place. Actually, Balladins Hotels franchises allow to check in without talking to any receptionists. In both of those franchise, you can pay by credits cards at the “check-in” machine which is available 24 hours a day. Then, you can access the hotel room from the car park. Follow my advice. Never trust any receptionist.
Ask her if she lives in shared accommodation. If she says yes, it will make things complicated. On the other hand, if she lives in an apartment on her own, it will make things easier. Anyways, I recommend finding the closest night place to her an apartment. In the night, the best would be to bring her to her place and have a one night stand at her place. She feels more comfortable.
Let’s come back to the dating plan. When you are going to be in touch with a woman (conversation, Facebook, MSN, phone), ask in which neighborhood she lives in. Afterward, find all bar lounges that are the closest to her place. I said bar lounges because I think those places are the best for dates. There are good bar lounges in France. Try to find a bar lounges with cushioned benches and intimate areas. You have to find a place that is intimate.
French women are very concerned about their public image. It is very important to find a very intimate place and isolate your interlocutor. By the way, it is useless to seduce a woman if she came with another woman. Isolating a woman is very important. As I use to say, dating is a business involving two adults. That’s it.
Alcohol is very important in France. French women are so normative so that they never dare anything. There are scared of what people may say about them. They don’t want to be seen as easy women. That’s why it is important to buy lots of alcohol (white wine, cocktail) to be sure she will get rid of inhibitions. Order lots of alcohol. It is better to have too much alcohol on a table than too few. Never order beer for sure. Beer is not strong enough, and it is bad for the belly and also erection. Once you feel she got rid of inhibition start to touch her. French women are very sensual. First, touch her hand, if you succeed in touching her hand, it means you are likely to have sex with this woman. Then touch her back and her legs. At last, touch her face. You are not forced to kiss each other. Once you touched her body and once she accepted everything, you can ask her, either to go to her place or to go a hotel.
Then, once the “deal has been sealed,” you have to go as fast as possible to her place or the hotel. You MUST find a hostel that is maximum 15 minutes away. 10 minutes is even better. After 15 minutes of travel, everything can change, and you can lose everything.
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